[unbearable prospect]

“there is  a story  about the Greek  gods. they  were  bored, so  they  invented  human beings. but they  were still bored, so  they  invented love. then  they  weren’t  bored  any  longer. so, they  decided  to  try  love  for  themselves. and  finally, they  invented  laughter. so  they  could stand it.” but if this is true, why  does boredom  still exist?  you’re sorry  to  say  that we’re only  us who should feel the feast of true love, because if there where  any  gods, presumambly, it would have been much easier. you’ re even deeply  sorry  to say  that  this invention-of a human creature -is  not considered a miracle anymore.[unbearable prospect] it’s hard to  say how do you react to this change. when you are happy, it doesn’t count   what trully  makes you happy. when you are not, you seek  the reason.and when you  get old, or grow  up, it’s like  passing many  many  borderlines in which  happiness does or not make part of the landscape.

[it's just  that..]you  feel that  you  crossed  that borderline, and you  are aware that  you  cannnot  do something to turn back to  the other side.  you  ask  yourself if it worths the while, then you  get over it. this  unbearable prospect is like a  trick for human  beings, to make them realize that  the irreversible should not become something that they  regret.

[...there're so many  things  you don't  know about yourself and about the others, there are so  many things that  make you laugh  but  you  refuse to  say they  are funny, there are even more many  things which you  all cannot explain, but  still, they  make part of your life. and this is an  unbearable prospect.to  live in the presence of something that  you  know  you  can  never explain....]

[the cure><don't stop running]

seek.ride.go.think.see.ask.help.

[love]

meet.run.come back.change.forget.recall.strive.pay.marry.pray.demand.

[love]

stop.cut.be.find.feel.share.save.open.

[love]

build.sing.watch.reject.strive.solve.gain.accomplish.realize.give.take.succeed.

[love]

leave.shine.vanish.anticipate.admit.dissolve.crowl.wakeup

but [love].and stop.

enjoy the ride

Why Think Positively?

The Power of Positive Thinking
You are what you think. You feel what you want.

All of our feelings, beliefs and knowledge are based on our internal thoughts, both conscious and subconscious. We are in control, whether we know it or not.

We can be positive or negative, enthusiastic or dull, active or passive.

The biggest difference between people is their attitudes. For some, learning is enjoyable and exciting. For others, learning is a drudgery. For many, learning is just okay, something required on the road to a job.

Most folks are about as happy as they
make up their minds to be.”
Abraham Lincoln

Our present attitudes are habits, built from the feedback of parents, friends, society and self, that form our self-image and our world-image.

These attitudes are maintained by the inner conversations we constantly have with ourselves, both consciously and subconsciously.

The first step in changing our attitudes is to change our inner conversations.

Commitment

Make a positive commitment to yourself, to learning, work, family, friends, nature, and other worthwhile causes. Praise yourself and others. Dream of success. Be enthusiastic.

Control

Keep your mind focused on important things. Set goals and priorities for what you think and do. Visualize to practice your actions. Develop a strategy for dealing with problems. Learn to relax. Enjoy successes. Be honest with yourself.

Challenge

Be courageous. Change and improve each day. Do your best and don’t look back. See learning and change as opportunities. Try new things. Consider several options. Meet new people. Ask lots of questions. Keep track of your mental and physical health. Be optimistic.

Studies show that people with these characteristics are winners in good times and survivors in hard times.

Research shows that,

“… people who begin consciously to modify their inner conversations and assumptions report an almost immediate improvement in their performance. Their energy increases and things seem to go better …”

Commitment, control and challenge help build self-esteem and promote positive thinking. Here are some other suggestions.

Commitment

Make a positive commitment to yourself, to learning, work, family, friends, nature, and other worthwhile causes. Praise yourself and others. Dream of success. Be enthusiastic.

Control

Keep your mind focused on important things. Set goals and priorities for what you think and do. Visualize to practice your actions. Develop a strategy for dealing with problems. Learn to relax. Enjoy successes. Be honest with yourself.

Challenge

Be courageous. Change and improve each day. Do your best and don’t look back. See learning and change as opportunities. Try new things. Consider several options. Meet new people. Ask lots of questions. Keep track of your mental and physical health. Be optimistic.

Studies show that people with these characteristics are winners in good times and survivors in hard times.

Research shows that,

“… people who begin consciously to modify their inner conversations and assumptions report an almost immediate improvement in their performance. Their energy increases and things seem to go better …”

Commitment, control and challenge help build self-esteem and promote positive thinking. Here are some other suggestions.

7 Suggestions for Building Positive AttitudesWhat Should We Be Saying?

One approach is called the three C’s: Commitment, Control and Challenge. 

• In every class, look for positive people to associate with.
  
• In every lecture, look for one more interesting idea.
  
• In every chapter, find one more concept important to you.
  
• With every friend, explain a new idea you’ve just learned.
  
• With every teacher, ask a question.
  
• With yourself, keep a list of your goals, positive thoughts and actions.
  
• Remember, you are what you think, you feel what you want.

 

 

 

[>the bridge<]

i’m  standing   under a  bridge, i  touch  the  walls  and the  water, and i  get  inspired. it’s the  air  that  makes you feel  the  need  to get  energy. it’s the light  of the  moon, but  the  hope  for  the sun that  makes you feel  connected to  the  ones that  pass  the  bridge. Although you  are  under it, the  vibration gets to  you easily. there are many people, and  each  of them  has his own  style  in walking; is that  a relevant difference? you  get  in fact the  same  message-  the  vibration, but  does the  way  the  vibration is  felt,  really count?

i am under  the  bridge. and it gets darker  and  darker. you  have  a picture in your  hand, which  reminds  you  that you  once were on the bridge, and you  feel  good.[...].who  is in  the  picture?[it's just  too  dark  too  see.but  you  remember.].you  spent  so much  time  to learn  how  to  hold  that picture, that you have already  learned it by  heart. it  doesn’t  mean  anything  to  you  the  fact  that it’s  cold and  dark, because you’re near  water. you  don’t  need  a  plan to  survive, because under  this  bridge it’s your temporary  place to  stay with  yourself and with the rest  of  your  life.

i  am  still  under the  bridge, it’s  again  four  o’clock and i  think there’s  something  that  i  wait  for. is it the  next  long  day   or simply  another state  of mind? i  see  you… but  you  see  me  different. you’ll never  be by  my  side. you  ‘ll  be  above,  looking  at  me  and telling that you  hold the  picture in another way. you’ll  be  seeking the  same  image trying  to  send  the vibration under  the  bridge, near  the water[...] and  then you  will  discover that the  water is  so  deep  and  you’re so  above the bridge that  even  your 13 senses won’t give  you  the power to float.then, do  you  need  a strategy  to  survive?  do  i  need  a plan to  keep  myself  under the  bridge or should i  get  back on it?